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(and tossing out random thoughts)

worrying about women in fly fishing


I worry about women in fly fishing and how it might affect me.

Not because women take instruction better and may easily out cast and out fish me. Not because every other fly fishing blog post seems to include an image of any number of women that attract attention away from the fish they might be holding. I’m not so worried that with the emergence of fly fishing gear for women, I might someday try on a pair of waders only to find them a bit snug in the wrong places. I’m also not worried about the women-only fly fishing outings. (I can always volunteer to be the camp cook, right?) And I’m not worried that women tend to generally be better fly fishers than men. There are already so many people, male and female, who are more accomplished fly fishers than I.

Maybe it’s a self-confidence issue. I don’t view myself as that rugged, burly guy. Thank God my wife loves me, but I tend to fall in the adorkable category, leaning slightly more toward dork. Suffice to say, I don’t really stand out in any way. I can easily disappear in a crowd.

I am worried, however, that in any photo, even if I’m holding a sparkling, iridescent 24-inch trout, I’ll be upstaged by any women fly fisher who happens along to help with the netting.

The evidence is below. Not fly fishing, to be sure, and even though the deckhand is behind a decent halibut and attired in unflattering foul-weather gear, most comments about this photo weren’t about the fish, but about much she was leaning in, her smile, etc.

Me, my fish and the deckhand who’d fillet it.


4 thoughts on “worrying about women in fly fishing

  1. “Adorkable” I love it!

  2. Hey Adorkable, take my advice. Thank you lucky stars you’ve got an adorable lady and just accept it.

  3. Patrick I love this post! At 46, with crows feet, and unruly curly locks, I feel much the same way as you do. I am considering getting a straight, long blonde wig, tight T, temporary tan and Ray Bans to increase reader interest in my blog! (lol only kidding) Hootsuite brought me to you, and I love your blog, including “watch not…” Thanks for the tongue in cheek mention. Deborah Jo at

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